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  • YOLO or FIRE | Enjoy Life Now or Later

    YOLO or FIRE | Enjoy Life Now or Later

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    YOLO or FIRE. You only live once. Financial independence and retiring early. Now or the future. What would you rather choose, enjoy life now or tomorrow?

    Can we do both? Yes. Maybe. Depends. It all boils down to how much money we have now and what do we prioritize.

    Some would like to travel and spend money on plane tickets and leisure activities abroad. Some would like to keep buying trendy stuff and people see them as cool. Some love eating out, going to bars and concerts, and watching movies with friends or families.

    Some are breadwinners and all of their salaries go to support their parents and children or even extended families that there is nothing left for themselves or even save.

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    And some think that saving or investing takes away money from them to enjoy life now. If we are all going to die someday, why would we save that money and not be able to use it to enjoy life if we die tomorrow?

    To me, it is all about moderation and priorities. But first things first, it would be near impossible to prepare for early retirement if our income is low. This must go up first. You can’t save if what you are earning is not enough to support your needs. Needs. Emphasis on that as sometimes we confuse the needs with the wants.

    And we can enjoy life, YOLO or FOMO, once we have enough money coming in and some to save or invest for us to retire early. Usually, what happens when we get a bigger income, we think of where to spend it. Nothing wrong with that. Just make sure to have an allotment for savings and eventually, investments.

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    YOLO or FOMO is, I think, created to keep us buying. To make sure we consume. To make sure the economy moves and grows as fast and as big as possible. If we stop and become stagnant in our purchasing behavior, businesses will slow down and economies may fall.

    But, we must also desire a life in which we do not have to work for money and be doing the work that we want to do. I think that is the missing piece in FIRE. We can be financially independent. We can retire early from our chosen careers and pursue the things we really love doing. Doing more purposeful work for ourselves and helping others.

    Do not fall prey to the latest trends and say YOLO. Do not be scared of missing out. If you do miss out, it doesn’t mean a thing. No one will talk about it two days later. It is just a moment. There will always be new things. We can still do other things.

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    So, we need to get our income higher to enjoy life now and retire early to do the things we love. Once we have money coming in, we do not need to choose between now and tomorrow. We can do both. Just remember to live within your means as bad debt will make you retire late instead of retiring early.

  • Purpose or Pay | Forcing Ourselves At Work

    Purpose or Pay | Forcing Ourselves At Work

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    Purpose or pay? Have you had that moment in your life when you feel you are forcing yourself to do your job and stay with it because the pay is high? Ever wondered about doing a job you like without worrying about how much it would pay?

    Out of school, we start looking for a job. Some may have planned out their careers but most of us took on the first job that offered us money. While we had moved from one company to another or even shifted careers, a good percentage of us chose to stay where we started and we may have grown to like it but, most are just stuck with it because the money brings food to the table.

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    My former boss once told me that he loves his job. He is available almost 24×7 and even when he is on vacation, he checks his email. That may be his way of dealing with his work but to me, that’s not what I want.

    A person I know who owns the company I worked before works even on holidays, Christmas. On the eve, he called me while I was in the church asking for financial projections. I answered it as the mass has not started and that was my wake up call. To him, his company is his life. To me, my family is my life.

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    These two examples could be telling us that they have seen their purpose in what they do or they are doing it because of the financial return. I could not honestly tell which is which. All I am trying to say is if we are doing the work because of the money and do not see the purpose in what we are doing, it is not the way to live.

    Saying to yourself, “I love my job” would not cut it.

    What is it that you want to do? What brings you joy and pleasure when you do it? What makes time go fast when you are doing something? I think these are the questions we could ask ourselves to find our purpose.

    If we are in a job and aiming for that promotion just because of money and not considering what could the promotion enable us to do that is aligned with our purpose, I think we may be in the wrong place.

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    For those who know me, I decided to stay at my level because I felt I am not doing the work I like. I would rather have a more direct impact in helping others grow in our current field as opposed to being far from their reach with relationships broken.

    Someone told me that it is all about the money. Yeah. Maybe. But, again, why would I feel stressed and depressed every day doing the work I do not want just to get more money for the work I do not see any purpose.

    Hope you get to think about it too. We only got one life. There is no better time to enjoy it than now.

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  • Financially Independent | The Freedom To Do

    Financially Independent | The Freedom To Do

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    Being financially independent is a goal that resonates with many individuals and families across the globe. The concept of financial freedom is not merely about having wealth, but rather the peace of mind and the liberty it brings, allowing one to live life on their own terms. It’s about making life choices without being overly stressed about the financial impact because you are prepared. You have the ability to make decisions based on happiness and fulfillment rather than dollars and cents.

    For me and my family, this ideal of financial independence is the ultimate objective. It’s the dream of being able to pursue our passions, hobbies, and interests without the constant worry of financial constraints. Whether it’s traveling to new destinations, exploring different cultures, or simply having the time to enjoy life’s simple pleasures, financial freedom provides that opportunity. It’s about having the security to weather unexpected expenses or economic downturns without panic. It means being able to provide for our family’s needs and wants, from education to healthcare, without compromise.

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    To attain this level of autonomy, it requires careful planning, disciplined saving, and prudent investing. It involves creating a budget that allows for savings, minimizing unnecessary expenses, and making smart financial decisions that will compound over time. It’s about understanding the difference between wants and needs, and prioritizing accordingly. Financial freedom is also about educating oneself and one’s family about money management, investments, and the value of money.

    Moreover, achieving financial freedom is not a solo journey. It involves the collective effort of the entire family, where each member contributes to and respects the family’s financial goals. It’s about open communication regarding finances, setting realistic goals, and working together to achieve them. It’s a commitment to a lifestyle that values experiences over material possessions, and it’s a promise to future generations that they will have a solid foundation upon which to build their own dreams.

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    Financial freedom is the key to unlocking a life of possibilities. It’s the assurance that we can chase our aspirations without the shadow of financial worry looming over us. It’s the peace of mind that comes from knowing we are in control of our finances, rather than being controlled by them. For my family and me, it’s not just a wish; it’s a path we are determined to follow, ensuring that our lives are rich in experiences and joy, unencumbered by financial stress. This is the legacy we aim to create and the life we strive to lead—a life where we are free to do what we want, when we want, without the ever-present concern of money.

    Working without worrying

    Imagine a future when we can do what we want without worrying about getting paid. Like playing with a rock band in front of an audience without worrying if it will bring us money enough to live the lifestyle we want. Or working for a company just because we like and enjoy the work and believe in what the company is trying to accomplish without the pressure of performing and competing with one another to get promoted or get a nice bonus.

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    Imagine a life where we can sit all day or just hang out with friends and family enjoying life and the world without any concern about where we get our food for the day (Although, that’s not a very nice thing to have as we’ll lose our sense of purpose).

    How about our children and our children’s children who do not give in to the pressure of society and look for the best-paying job so they can live an affluent life?

    How great would that be?

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    Breaking free from the chains of working

    We are all tied up in our careers because of the money it brings to us. Most of us can not quit because we need to support our families and the lifestyle we have. In my opinion, this prevents us from having a meaningful life as most of the time, we force ourselves to do what is needed to be done just to keep that salary coming and keep our jobs, at least.

    And most of us are living paycheck to paycheck. What we get every month is just enough to support our expenses. Maybe a little extra and for some, none at all.

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    I think we need to start moving forward and away from this situation. We all need to look beyond today and align how we handle our money to become financially independent. That we get out cash inflow from a source that is self-sustaining and leaves us to do what we want (like enjoying and going on trips around the world).

    We could start with savings. Simple concept enough but that would not meet our daily needs as it will deplete. We could look at investing which with enough time and compounding interests, could probably be self-sustaining and provide us with the means to meet our desired lifestyle. Or any other means that I do not know yet.

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    In any case, we all should look into this future state, plan for it, and direct our actions to achieve it. We all feel that stress at work which is not very healthy for our minds and body.

    The Path to Financial Independence

    Financial independence is a state of being that many aspire to achieve—a condition where one is not bound by the necessity to work for a living but is free to pursue work that is meaningful and fulfilling. It’s a liberating concept that breaks the traditional chains of the working world, which often compel us to engage in labor simply for monetary gain. Instead, financial independence allows us to choose occupations that align with our passions and interests.

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    The journey towards financial independence is both challenging and rewarding. It begins with a commitment to live within one’s means, to save diligently, and to invest wisely. It’s about making informed choices that prioritize financial security over immediate gratification. This might mean setting aside a portion of one’s income for long-term growth, or it could involve finding innovative ways to reduce expenses without sacrificing quality of life.

    But financial independence is more than just a numbers game. It’s about cultivating a mindset that values freedom and autonomy. It’s about understanding that time is a finite resource and that how we choose to spend it is one of the most important decisions we make. When we are financially independent, we reclaim our time. We can devote it to our families, to our communities, or to causes that we care deeply about.

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    Moreover, financial independence is not an end in itself but a means to an end. It’s about creating a life that is rich in experiences rather than possessions. It’s about having the flexibility to travel, to learn new skills, or to take risks on new ventures without the fear of financial ruin. It’s about being able to support and nurture the dreams and aspirations of our loved ones.

    Ultimately, financial independence is about empowerment. It’s about having the confidence to make life choices that are not dictated by economic necessity but by personal desire and ambition. It’s a powerful tool that enables us to live life on our own terms, to be the architects of our destiny, and to do the work that brings us joy and satisfaction. Let us all strive for this independence, not just for ourselves, but for the generations that follow, so they too can be free from the shackles of financial obligation and truly live the lives they envision.

    So, let us all be financially independent to be free from the shackles of the world that ties us up to do work to get paid and instead, do the work we really want.

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  • Bonus | How We Spend Or Save

    Bonus | How We Spend Or Save

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    The end of the year is a special time for many employees. It’s when we receive our annual bonus, or for some, the much-awaited 13th-month pay. This extra income is often the result of a year’s worth of hard work and dedication, and naturally, we’ve all been looking forward to it. With plans for this money already dancing in our heads, it’s easy to get carried away with thoughts of how to spend it.

    However, it’s important to pause and reflect before we rush to spend this bonus. Consider this: what if we viewed this money not as a part of our regular income, but as an opportunity for financial growth? Instead of immediately allocating it to various expenses or splurges, we could think about how it might be used to improve our financial stability in the long run.

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    Imagine if we chose to save a portion of this bonus, or even invest it. Such decisions could pave the way for a more secure financial future, one where we’re not living paycheck to paycheck. It’s tempting to treat ourselves with this extra cash, but by exercising a bit of restraint, we could turn a temporary windfall into lasting wealth.

    Let’s take a moment to consider our options. Let’s think about how we can use this money wisely, ensuring that it benefits us well beyond the holiday season. It’s an opportunity to make smart financial choices that could have a positive impact for years to come.

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    Smart Spending: Making the Most of Your Bonus

    For many, the arrival of a bonus is a moment of great joy and anticipation. It’s a time when our financial burdens seem lighter, and the possibilities for enjoyment seem endless. This money, often substantial in amount, has likely been earmarked for various purposes well in advance. Some of us plan to use it to reduce or eliminate debts, easing the financial pressures that have built up over the year. Others look forward to purchasing the latest gadgets, delighting in the advancements of technology that promise to enhance our lives or the lives of our loved ones. Then some dream of escaping the routine, imagining a vacation that offers relaxation and adventure in equal measure.

    The feeling of receiving this money is exhilarating. Seeing our bank accounts grow significantly overnight can give us a sense of financial freedom we seldom experience. It’s a feeling that can be intoxicating, leading many of us to think about spending it immediately on the things we desire.

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    However, this initial impulse to spend can be tempered with a strategic approach to managing our newfound wealth. By considering our financial goals and the long-term benefits of wise spending, we can transform the way we view and use our bonuses. Instead of seeing this money as a means to immediate gratification, we can view it as an opportunity to invest in our future—be it through saving, investing, or making purchases that will bring lasting value and joy.

    In essence, our annual bonus is more than just extra cash; it’s a chance to make thoughtful decisions that can contribute to our financial well-being. By balancing the pleasure of spending with the prudence of saving, we can ensure that the excitement of today doesn’t come at the expense of tomorrow’s security. Let’s embrace this opportunity to make our money work for us, creating a brighter financial future in the process.

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    The Challenge of Saving: Intentions vs. Reality

    The concept of saving money is often met with the best of intentions, especially when it comes to managing unexpected financial windfalls like an annual bonus. Many of us have considered the prudent idea of saving a portion of this bonus. The plan usually involves setting aside a certain amount for future needs or emergencies, while allowing ourselves the freedom to spend the remainder on immediate wants or pleasures.

    However, the reality of saving is frequently at odds with our intentions. Despite our initial resolve, the act of actually putting money aside can be elusive. Life’s many expenses, both expected and unforeseen, have a way of chipping away at our resolve. Before we know it, the bonus that was meant to bolster our savings is spent, leaving us wondering where it all went. In a surprisingly short amount of time, often just a month or so, we find that the extra money has disappeared, and we’re back to our starting financial position as if the bonus never happened.

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    This cycle can be disheartening, but it’s a common experience. It highlights the difficulty of sticking to a savings plan amidst the many temptations and demands of daily life. To break this cycle, it may require us to reevaluate our approach to money management, to set more realistic savings goals, and to develop strategies that help us resist the impulse to spend. By doing so, we can ensure that our good intentions translate into tangible financial progress, moving us beyond the frustrating return to square one.

    Rethinking Our Bonus: A Strategy for Financial Health

    When it comes to managing our finances, the annual bonus often presents a unique challenge. It’s tempting to view this money as an extension of our regular budget, but doing so can lead to a slippery slope of spending. Instead, it’s worth considering the bonus as separate from our usual income. This mindset shift can help us resist the urge to spend it all at once.

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    Why should we think this way? Because when we see the bonus as part of our budget, we’re more likely to justify expenses that we wouldn’t normally make. It’s easy to fall into the trap of thinking we have ‘extra’ money to spend. However, if we plan our holiday spending from our regular monthly income, the bonus becomes truly extra. This approach allows us to use the bonus more wisely, either by saving it for future goals or investing it to grow over time.

    Of course, changing our habits is not simple. Life is complex, and it takes effort to maintain order amidst the chaos. The idea of saving or investing our bonus, rather than spending it, requires discipline and a long-term perspective.

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    If this strategy seems too daunting to implement this year, it’s never too early to start planning for the next. Perhaps we could begin by allocating only half of our bonus to our financial plans, treating the remainder as the genuine ‘bonus’ it is meant to be. This balanced approach can help us build a buffer for the future while still enjoying the present.

    By reevaluating how we view our bonus, we can take a significant step towards better financial health. It’s about making choices that align with our long-term well-being, rather than immediate desires. Let’s consider this strategy as a way to enhance our financial resilience and ensure that our bonus serves us well beyond the holiday season.

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  • Inflation | Can it be beaten?

    Inflation | Can it be beaten?

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    Inflation, a term that often stirs concern among consumers and policymakers alike, is fundamentally the increase in the price of goods and services over time. While the average annual inflation rate hovers around 5%, this figure can vary significantly from one country to another, influenced by a myriad of factors that intertwine in the complex web of the global economy.

    At its core, inflation reflects the devaluation of currency; as prices rise, the purchasing power of money falls, meaning consumers can buy less with the same amount of money. This dynamic can be triggered by various elements, including but not limited to, changes in supply and demand, monetary policy, and external shocks to the economy.

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    Supply and demand play a pivotal role in shaping inflation. When demand for goods and services exceeds supply, prices naturally rise. This scenario, known as demand-pull inflation, can occur during periods of strong economic growth when consumer confidence is high. Conversely, cost-push inflation arises when the cost of production increases, often due to higher prices for raw materials or wages, leading producers to pass these costs onto consumers in the form of higher prices.

    High demand raises prices

    In the realm of economics, the principle that prices ascend when demand outstrips supply is foundational. This phenomenon is not merely a matter of market mechanics; it serves two pivotal purposes. Firstly, it acts as a regulatory mechanism, ensuring that the supply of goods does not exhaust precipitously. Secondly, it presents an opportunity for sellers to capitalize on the heightened demand.

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    When demand burgeons beyond the available supply, a price increase is a natural consequence. This increment is not arbitrary; it is a calculated response to the market’s signals. By elevating prices, suppliers can temper the rate at which goods are consumed, thereby averting a rapid depletion of stock. This is crucial in maintaining the equilibrium of the market and ensuring that resources are available for a longer duration.

    Moreover, the surge in demand presents a lucrative prospect for businesses. It is an opportune moment to maximize profits—a fundamental objective for any commercial entity. This profit motive is not inherently detrimental; it incentivizes production and can lead to innovation and improved efficiency. However, it must be balanced with ethical considerations and the broader impact on consumers and the economy.

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    The interplay between supply, demand, and pricing is a delicate balance. It is influenced by a multitude of factors, including production costs, competition, consumer preferences, and economic policies. Businesses must navigate this terrain with acumen, adjusting their strategies to align with market dynamics while adhering to ethical standards.

    In essence, the relationship between supply, demand, and pricing is a testament to the intricate dance of economic forces. It underscores the need for astute management of resources and a keen understanding of market behavior. As consumers, it behooves us to comprehend these principles, for they have a direct bearing on our daily lives and financial well-being.

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    The basic economic principle that prices rise when demand exceeds supply is a cornerstone of market economies. It serves to regulate consumption and drive profitability, reflecting the complex interdependencies that govern our economic systems. By grasping this concept, we gain insight into the workings of the economy and can make more informed decisions as participants in the market. Let us appreciate the nuance of this principle and recognize its role in shaping the economic landscape.

    More people, more demand

    The correlation between population growth and demand is a fundamental economic principle. As the population increases, so does the number of consumers, which in turn elevates the demand for goods and services. This relationship is intuitive; more people equate to a greater need for food, clothing, housing, and other essentials, as well as luxuries.

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    This increase in demand due to population growth has far-reaching implications. For businesses, it represents an opportunity for expansion and increased sales. For economies, it can signal growth and prosperity. However, it also poses challenges, such as the need for sustainable production methods and the potential for resource depletion.

    Moreover, a growing population can lead to increased competition for jobs, which can drive wages down, and in some cases, lead to unemployment. It can also strain public services and infrastructure, such as schools, hospitals, and transportation systems, which must expand to meet the needs of more people.

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    On the other hand, a larger consumer base can spur innovation as companies strive to meet the diverse needs of a broader market. It can also lead to economies of scale, where the cost of producing goods decreases as the quantity produced increases, potentially leading to lower prices for consumers.

    It’s important to note that the impact of population growth on demand is not uniform across all sectors or regions. Some areas may experience rapid growth and increased demand, while others may see slower growth or even a decline in population and demand.

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    In conclusion, the relationship between population growth and demand is a complex one, with both positive and negative aspects. It is a dynamic that requires careful management to ensure that the benefits are maximized and the challenges are addressed. As consumers and citizens, understanding this relationship can help us make informed decisions about our consumption habits and our role in the economy. Let us be mindful of the impact of our growing numbers and strive to balance our needs with the sustainability of our planet and the well-being of future generations.

    The older we are, the less we buy

    The phenomenon of changing consumption patterns as we age is a fascinating aspect of human behavior, one that reflects broader economic and social trends. There is a notable shift in desires and consumption habits starting around the age of 40. This shift is not just an individual experience but also has macroeconomic implications, particularly when observed across different countries with varying demographic profiles.

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    In regions like South East Asia, where the population is relatively young, there is a vibrant consumer culture. Younger populations are often characterized by a strong desire for goods, services, and experiences. This is driven by factors such as a focus on establishing oneself, creating a comfortable life, and the influence of peer consumption patterns. As a result, economies with younger demographics tend to experience robust consumption rates, fueling economic growth and driving demand for a wide array of products.

    Conversely, countries with an aging population, such as Japan, exhibit a slowdown in consumption. As people age, their priorities and lifestyles change. The pursuit of material goods often gives way to a focus on health, leisure, and experiences that do not necessarily translate into high consumption of goods. Older individuals may also have most of their major life purchases behind them, such as homes and cars, and their spending shifts towards maintenance rather than acquisition.

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    This transition from a high-consumption lifestyle to a more conservative approach has significant implications for economies. In countries with older populations, businesses may face challenges in maintaining growth as traditional consumer markets contract. It necessitates a shift in economic strategies, product development, and marketing to cater to the evolving needs of an aging demographic.

    Moreover, this shift also highlights the importance of sustainable economic policies that can adapt to demographic changes. Economies that rely heavily on consumption must consider long-term strategies to balance the needs of different age groups and ensure steady economic performance.

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    The relationship between age and consumption is a reflection of changing priorities over the lifespan. It underscores the need for economies to be agile and responsive to demographic shifts. As individuals and societies, recognizing these patterns can help us plan for the future and understand the economic forces at play in our lives. Let us embrace the wisdom that comes with age and the evolving desires that shape our consumption, contributing to a balanced and sustainable economic future.

    More money, more honey

    The concept of a government printing money and introducing it into the economy is a critical aspect of monetary policy known as quantitative easing. This process can indeed lead to an increase in the money supply, which, in theory, gives consumers more spending power. As a result, if people have more money to spend, consumer demand may rise. When this increased demand meets a limited supply, it can lead to higher prices, a classic scenario of inflation.

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    However, the relationship between money supply, demand, and inflation is complex. Simply printing more money does not guarantee that people will spend it; much depends on the overall confidence in the economy and the availability of goods and services. If consumers are worried about the future, they may choose to save rather than spend, which can dampen the effects on demand.

    Moreover, if the supply of goods and services can be increased to meet the higher demand, inflationary pressures can be mitigated. This is where the role of government and central banks becomes nuanced. They must carefully calibrate how much money is introduced into the economy to avoid runaway inflation, which can erode purchasing power and lead to economic instability.

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    Inflation driven by an increase in the money supply is known as monetary inflation. It’s a phenomenon that central banks monitor closely, using tools like interest rates and reserve requirements to control the money supply and, by extension, inflation.

    It’s also worth noting that not all inflation is harmful. A moderate level of inflation is often considered a sign of a healthy, growing economy. It can encourage investment and spending, as money today will be worth less tomorrow. However, when inflation becomes excessive, it can lead to a decrease in the standard of living as prices rise faster than wages.

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    While printing money can lead to more spending and higher demand, it’s a delicate balance that requires careful management. Governments and central banks must work together to ensure that any increase in the money supply supports economic growth without leading to excessive inflation. As citizens, understanding these economic principles can help us better grasp the decisions made by policymakers and their impact on our daily lives. Let us be informed participants in the economic discourse, recognizing the intricate dance between money supply, demand, and inflation.

    Creating money from loans

    The process of borrowing money from banks and the subsequent creation of more money is a fundamental aspect of modern banking known as the credit creation process. When we take out a loan, we agree to pay back the principal amount plus interest. This interest is the cost of borrowing money, and it’s how banks earn a profit.

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    As borrowers spend the loaned money, it circulates through the economy, passing from one person to another. When this money is deposited back into the banking system, it becomes available for banks to loan out again. However, banks don’t lend out the entire amount; they keep a portion as reserves, as required by central bank regulations. The rest is loaned out, creating more money in the process.

    This cycle of depositing and lending can repeat multiple times, and with each iteration, the money supply in the economy can increase. This is because every time a loan is made, new money is effectively created. This phenomenon is known as the money multiplier effect.

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    However, this process doesn’t create wealth out of thin air. The money created through loans is balanced by the debt that borrowers owe to the banks. If too much money is created, it can lead to inflation, as there would be more money chasing the same amount of goods and services. Conversely, if there’s not enough lending, it can lead to a contraction in the money supply, which can slow economic growth.

    Central banks monitor and regulate this process to ensure a stable money supply that supports economic growth without causing excessive inflation. They use tools like reserve requirements, interest rates, and open market operations to influence how much money banks can create.

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    The process of borrowing money and paying interest plays a crucial role in the money creation process. It’s a cycle that supports economic activity but also requires careful management to maintain financial stability. Understanding this process can help us better appreciate the role of banks and central banks in the economy and the impact of our financial decisions on the broader economic landscape. Let’s be mindful of the power of borrowing and lending, recognizing its potential to both stimulate and destabilize the economy.

    What can we do?

    First, strive to get a higher income. Inflation will stay. The first thing and basic thing to do to beat it is to get a higher income than the previous year. Without it, we will be in a problematic situation.

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    Second, moderate consumption. If we do not really need and want it, just don’t buy it. Let us not fall into the latest fads and trends.

    Third, create savings that are not a fixed amount but rather move according to future value. If you plan to save, for example, Php10,000 (about $200), next year, it should be Php10,100. This way, if an emergency strikes, you can still beat it.

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    And lastly, invest for the long term. Buy stocks, bonds, mutual funds, crypto, real estate, etc. and do not, again, do not focus on earning in the short term. Investments must be treated as future income to finance your lifestyle in 10 to 20 years in the future, not today. It is never an easy money. Do not be a fool.

    Inflation is here to stay. It has been for hundreds of years. While we could not control other factors affecting it, we could do something so we do not lose against it. Having a better life, or at least maintaining what we have, requires us to move and put into action doable steps to anticipate its impact on our lives.

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  • Spending | Earning More And Spending More

    Spending | Earning More And Spending More

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    Every one of us is guilty of this – spending more when we earn more. And before we know it, we are back in the same situation as when we started working – no savings or still in debt. How do we overcome it? What can we do? Why do we need to change?

    It’s undeniable that the temptation to increase our spending as our income grows can lead to financial instability. Overcoming this pattern requires a shift in mindset and habits. One effective approach is to establish a detailed budget that includes a healthy portion for saving and investing. Additionally, cultivating a mindful spending mentality can help us resist the urge to splurge unnecessarily.

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    When it comes to what we can do, seeking financial literacy and seeking advice from professionals can be invaluable. The insights and strategies they provide can guide us toward making sound financial decisions that align with our long-term goals.

    Changing our spending habits is crucial for achieving financial stability and security. By living within our means and embracing a more frugal approach, we can avoid the cycle of living paycheck to paycheck and instead build a solid foundation for our future. This change is essential because it allows us to break free from the burden of debt and provides the opportunity to create a safety net for unexpected expenses and retirement.

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    By reevaluating our relationship with money, seeking knowledge and guidance, and committing to a more mindful and intentional approach to spending, we can overcome the detrimental cycle of increasing expenses with higher income, paving the way for a more financially secure future.

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    Spending more

    For those of us who have been experiencing a rise in income, whether it’s due to an annual raise, a promotion, taking on an additional job, or gains from investments, the initial inclination is often to consider purchasing new items. Whether it’s the latest gadgets, trendy apparel, or exotic vacations, the allure of upgrading our lifestyle is undeniable. However, amidst the thrill of these possibilities, it’s crucial to pause and reflect on how these newfound expenses will contribute to our future well-being. Will these acquisitions truly enhance our lives in the long run, or are there alternative ways to allocate these resources that would yield greater benefits for our future selves?

    Lifestyle change

    I once heard someone say, “I would probably need to change my sport to golf.” He mentioned this to me, along with other work colleagues, after we all had received our annual increase, bonus, and promotions When I heard that, my initial thought was wow! This guy must have received a significant boost in his pay from his promotion. And honestly, I felt a little tinge of envy as I am not at that level. However, as years went by, I felt it did not matter to me.

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    When we get more money from our income due to a pay raise, bonus, promotion, or any other means, our first instinct is what else could we buy. We are always looking forward to buying better gadgets, eating in restaurants, getting that vacation, and going to places we see beautiful people post on Instagram which seems to be a very happy and luxurious place.

    This is not entirely wrong. After all, we are all working to have a better quality of life and enjoy the fruits of our labor. What is wrong with this is when we spend more than what we earn or even up to the limit of our income and we forget our future selves.

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    Pay ourselves first

    We often hear this or read about it. Most of us must have encountered the phrase “live within your means”. As simple as it sounds, it is not very easy for most people to do as we all have varying life situations and priorities. But I hope I could help you who could be struggling to do this.

    Paying ourselves first means allotting some amount from our income to savings and if you have progressed even more, to investments or businesses. There are a lot of books that will say to save 10% or 20% or what have you of your income and reach an emergency fund of 3 months to 1 year. All of these are true as I have tried it myself but, it must be done according to our own capabilities and life priorities.

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    If you think you can save Php1,000 ($20) a month, do it. If it is just Php500 ($10), do it. Then if you can save more, the better. Focus on the doing, not on the amount. That is the starting point.

    It is your own life

    When you experience an increase in income, it’s important to consider the way you manage and allocate those additional funds. One recommended approach is to prioritize saving a higher portion of your income before making any adjustments to your lifestyle. By doing so, you not only secure a more substantial financial cushion for the future, but you also have the opportunity to break free from the cycle of living paycheck to paycheck. Without this conscious choice to prioritize saving, the familiar pattern of struggling to make ends meet may persist, despite the positive change in income. As such, it is crucial to reevaluate your financial habits and strive to allocate your increased earnings wisely, focusing on both immediate needs and long-term financial security.

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    It is not a contest of who has a better phone, better clothes, or a better house. It is about sustaining the lifestyle you want without worrying and without going beyond what you can only afford. Every individual has their own preferences and needs when it comes to their lifestyle. It’s essential to focus on personal fulfillment and financial security rather than comparing possessions or material wealth. Striving for a balanced and sustainable lifestyle, within one’s means, contributes to long-term happiness and stability. This mindset allows for the enjoyment of life without unnecessary stress or the burden of exceeding one’s financial limitations. Ultimately, it’s the contentment and peace of mind that come from living within one’s financial capabilities that bring true fulfillment.

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  • Investment | Breaking the fear of the unknown

    Investment | Breaking the fear of the unknown

    Most people do not invest, and for those who do, most are not successful. This leaves us with a very small percentage of the population that gains from investments. The question now is why only the very few get rich in investments. What is stopping the rest from becoming investors and becoming rich?

    Let’s go back for a moment. When we hear the word “investment” in a conversation or read articles, it often focuses on getting rich fast. This isn’t true. Investment doesn’t bring quick wealth. It takes time, understanding, and self-control. These are the things most people lack.

    Investing is a long-term game that requires patience, learning, and the ability to stick to a plan, even when the market is unpredictable. The attraction of quick wealth often hides the true nature of the investment process. Successful investors know the importance of making informed decisions and staying committed to their strategy, even in tough times. Recognizing opportunities, managing risks, and diversifying one’s portfolio are crucial for success.

    Moreover, many people don’t have enough knowledge about money and investments, which makes it hard for them to start investing. The fear of losing money and the complexity of financial markets can be too much, so they avoid investing altogether. Some people also find it difficult to save enough money to start investing because they think they don’t have enough to spare or they don’t know where to begin.

    Empowering people with money know-how and promoting a practical view of investing can help remove obstacles. By offering easy-to-reach tools, advice, and mentorship, more folks can gain the courage and knowledge to take part in investing. Creating a space where people can learn from each other and get help in their investment journey can also boost the number of successful investors in the community.

    The path to becoming a successful investor and reaping the rewards of investments involves reshaping your attitude towards money, committing to continuous learning, and having reliable financial guidance. By addressing the barriers that hinder people from investing, we can work towards a future where more individuals can benefit from investment opportunities.

    Risks make it scary

    When it comes to investing, it’s crucial to have a clear understanding of one’s financial goals, risk tolerance, and time horizon. The fear and uncertainty associated with investing often stem from a lack of knowledge or unrealistic expectations. It’s natural to feel apprehensive when the future of your hard-earned money is at stake. However, it’s important to remember that well-informed and strategic investing can pave the way for long-term financial growth and stability.

    One key factor that contributes to feelings of unease is the perception of uncertainty in the market. Fluctuations in stock prices and the volatility of cryptocurrencies can indeed be intimidating, but it’s essential to approach these situations with a rational mindset. Instead of being driven by fear during market downturns, some seasoned investors view them as potential buying opportunities. This approach requires patience and a long-term perspective, as the rewards of investing may not materialize overnight.

    It’s essential to differentiate between genuine investing and get-rich-quick schemes. True investing involves a comprehensive analysis of a company’s fundamentals, including its vision, mission, and business model. By aligning one’s investment choices with the long-term prospects of a company, individuals can contribute to its growth while potentially reaping financial rewards over time.

    By understanding that investing takes time and knowing the basic principles of smart investing, people can make better decisions that aren’t swayed by fear and short-term market changes. This change in thinking can help investors stick to their plan and resist making decisions based only on emotions.

    Investment is not gambling

    Investing is not gambling but it is risky. It comes with uncertainties. And the only way to minimize those uncertainties is to know more. Knowing more about how an investment works and knowing more about the company your are investing will give you a good night sleep. But, again, it is not an overnight thing. It will take years. So make sure you are investing for your far future not near future.

    When you invest, it’s not the same as gambling. Although there are risks, it’s important to know that it’s a well-thought-out way to manage your money. By understanding how investments work and learning about the companies you’re investing in, you can reduce the uncertainties. This knowledge can give you a sense of security, so you can feel confident about your decisions.

    However, it’s essential to acknowledge that the process of building a successful investment portfolio is not something that yields immediate results. It requires a long-term perspective and patience. The benefits of your investment strategy may not materialize overnight, but with perseverance and a focus on the future, you can work towards achieving your financial goals. Therefore, when considering investments, it’s prudent to align your mindset with long-term outcomes rather than seeking immediate gratification. By investing with a far-future orientation, you can position yourself for financial security and stability as the years progress.

    Start Researching

    The importance of consuming informative content cannot be overstated. Instead of mindlessly scrolling through entertaining reels and TikTok videos, consider delving into enriching articles available online. By investing time in learning and expanding your knowledge base, you can gain valuable insights and knowledge that can positively impact your life. Embracing this mindset allows you to explore a myriad of stories and information, providing a platform for continuous learning and personal growth.

    When it comes to investing, knowledge is indeed power. By immersing yourself in valuable content related to investments, you can acquire the necessary know-how to make informed decisions. Whether it’s understanding the intricacies of various investment opportunities or learning from the experiences of successful investors, consuming relevant information is pivotal in your journey toward financial growth and security.

    Furthermore, the element of time plays a crucial role in this equation. Starting now rather than later is essential, as time is an invaluable asset when it comes to investing. By initiating this process promptly, you allow yourself the opportunity to learn, adapt, and apply your knowledge effectively. This proactive approach maximizes the potential benefits that diligent information consumption and timely action can yield. Therefore, embrace the opportunity to learn and grow through consuming relevant material, and take proactive steps to invest in your future.

  • Live within your means | Save some

    Live within your means | Save some

    Live within your means is something we have heard of a lot. But what does it really mean? And how could it really help us without sacrificing how we enjoy life now?

    How do you spend your money?

    What things do you buy from it? How satisfied are you with how much money that you have now? Is it enough? Do you still need more? Is money really evil?

    He started working in a BPO company way back in 2004. For those of you who doesn’t know what a BPO company is, it is a contact center where customer service representatives, or agents, answer or make calls, and reply to emails or chats, of customers. BPO stands for Business Process Outsourcing.

    He started as an agent. He made sales calls to potential customers. He answered calls from existing customers about account information. He troubleshoots on the phone any desktop or laptop issues a customer has.

    The pay was okay. He was able to support his wife and son back then. They rented a small apartment which is about 5 minutes walk from his office. They were able to spend weekends in the mall. They were okay.

    But they are just okay. Meaning, that his salary was all spent for the entire 15 days, and needs to wait for the next salary to get credited so he could continue to support his family. And then, one day, the salary was delayed due to bank issues. They had no food. No cash on hand. Nothing. He had to look for his collection of old foreign currency bills and had it exchanged for local peso which was a meager Php100.

    The guy in this story is me. We never had money before. It was a struggle. It was very difficult. We can’t go out with friends when we want to. We can’t go to any restaurants or have any vacation from our own pockets.

    Everything changed when I moved to a different company. The money was good. We had more than enough of what we needed.

    But, we kept the memory of that day alive – seeing my son with nothing to eat because the salary wasn’t there yet.

    Remembering that day helped us get to where we are now.

    The following is what my wife and I did:

    • We worked out our budget slowly adjusting to instead of having money enough for 15 days, we made it 20 days, 25 days then one month. This way we don’t have to wait. We have a specific amount per day that we can only spend.
    • We didn’t change our cost of living for a while. We stuck to our budget as our priority is to be liquid – to always have cash on hand.
    • We started investment. At first, I purchased a variable life insurance.
    • Next, I went into stocks. It was difficult at first as I kept losing money but then I learned the peso-cost averaging so I did that instead.
    • Our budget remained the same with an annual increase of 5% for inflation.
    • We continued managing our budget from 30 days to 60 days to 90 days. This means that we maintained 3 months’ worth of living expenses as savings.
    • We eventually stabilized and now doing 20% investments to various assets, 70% budget for our monthly expenses, and 10% to savings.

    I will tell you that it was really difficult at the start. Everything in life is difficult at the start but, if you don’t start moving now, nothing will happen.

    Don’t spend everything.

    This is what “living below your means” means. It is not depriving yourself. It is just about not spending it all and putting some to savings and/or investments. Life is meant to be enjoyed. But not to the point that you suffer financially after enjoying that meal from the restaurant.

    A lot of us will say that they don’t have enough. Or they are paying loans. Or supporting their families. All good. Pay that loan. Don’t start a new one until that is done. Not enough money? Go find another work or if you have the drive, start a business. Too much expenses at home, well, that’s a different experience and expertise that I will discuss next time.

    Just don’t spend everything. Save some.


    Living below your means is a financial strategy that involves spending less money than you earn. It’s about creating a buffer between your expenses and your income, ensuring that you have funds left over to save and invest. This approach is not about self-deprivation; rather, it’s about making conscious choices to secure your financial future while still enjoying life’s pleasures.

    Understanding “Living Below Your Means”

    The concept of living below your means is often misunderstood. It’s not about cutting out all of life’s joys or living a minimalist lifestyle (unless that’s your preference). It’s about balance and making informed decisions. For instance, enjoying a meal at a restaurant is perfectly fine, but it should not lead to financial distress. The key is moderation and planning. If you know you have a dinner planned, you might save up for it in advance or cut back on other non-essential expenses to accommodate this treat.

    The Reality of Financial Constraints

    Many people feel trapped by their financial obligations, whether it’s due to insufficient income, loans, or family responsibilities. These are valid concerns, but they shouldn’t be excuses for not saving. If you’re dealing with loans, focus on paying them off without incurring new debt. If your income isn’t enough, consider looking for additional work or, if you’re entrepreneurial, starting a small business. High household expenses can be overwhelming, but they also present an opportunity to audit your spending and find areas to cut back.

    Strategies for Saving

    Saving money requires a strategic approach. Here are some methods to help you save more effectively:

    • Budgeting: Create a detailed budget that tracks all your income and expenses. This will help you identify where you can reduce spending.
    • Emergency Fund: Aim to build an emergency fund that covers 3-6 months of living expenses. This fund can protect you from unexpected financial shocks.
    • Automated Savings: Set up automatic transfers to your savings account. This “out of sight, out of mind” approach can help you build savings without feeling the pinch.
    • Investing: Consider investing a portion of your savings to grow your wealth over time. Even small, consistent investments can compound into significant sums.
    • Cutting Costs: Look for ways to reduce your regular expenses. This might include negotiating bills, eliminating subscriptions you don’t use, or shopping for better insurance rates.

    The Importance of Mindset

    Adopting a mindset of financial prudence is crucial. It’s about prioritizing your long-term financial health over short-term gratification. This doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy life; it simply means making choices that align with your financial goals. For example, instead of buying a new car, you might opt for a reliable used one and invest the difference. It’s these small decisions that can lead to substantial savings over time.

    Conclusion

    Living below your means is a sustainable financial practice that can lead to a more secure and stress-free life. It’s about being mindful of your spending, saving diligently, and investing wisely. By adopting this approach, you can enjoy life’s pleasures without compromising your financial well-being. Remember, it’s not about spending nothing; it’s about spending smartly and saving consistently.

  • Money can buy happiness

    Money can buy happiness

    Money can buy happiness. There is truth to this, to some extent. We always read quotes, posts, blogs, or articles that say money can not buy happiness. That by this message, it is not important. That what makes us happy is the love that we have around us. The love we give to other people. As long as we have them, we are happy.

    When considering the relationship between money and happiness, it’s important to acknowledge that while financial stability and the ability to fulfill one’s needs can contribute to a sense of well-being and contentment, true happiness often stems from meaningful connections, experiences, and personal fulfillment. The love and support of those around us, the positive impact we have on others, and the pursuit of our passions can bring immense joy and fulfillment that transcends material wealth. This does not diminish the significance of financial security but rather emphasizes the multifaceted nature of happiness and the various elements that contribute to it.

    Though, at the same time, there seem to be posts circulating around that money do buy happiness. That if we do not have it, we would not be able to enjoy life and in effect, we will not enjoy spending time with people around us. Without it, we do not have anything. Without anything, there is no happiness.

    It’s worth noting that while money can facilitate access to certain experiences and resources that enhance our quality of life, it is not a guarantee of happiness. As individuals, we are driven by complex emotional, social, and psychological factors that shape our perceptions of happiness and fulfillment. Therefore, while financial stability is important, it is equally vital to cultivate and cherish the meaningful relationships and experiences that truly enrich our lives and contribute to our overall happiness.

    And yes, I agree with this. I agree that we need money to be able to do things. To buy things that will help us achieve and do what we want to do. To experience things with our loved ones. To be able to create something for someone. To be able to do what we want to do and achieve great things. With money, we can be happy.

    It could bring happiness depending on how we use it. If we take it into the context that we need money to buy things just for the purpose of buying them, becoming affluent, to show off, to experience pleasure, without any purpose of creating and helping, that is when we can say money can not buy happiness as owning material things does not really make us happy. It is when we are able to create and help that we experience joy and have a sense of fulfillment.

    The role of money in our pursuit of happiness is indeed complex and multifaceted. While it is true that having financial resources can provide us with comfort, security, and opportunities, the way in which we choose to utilize and perceive money ultimately determines its impact on our well-being. If we approach money solely as a means to acquire material possessions, attain status, or seek fleeting pleasures, it may lead to a shallow and transient sense of fulfillment. However, when we shift our mindset towards using our resources to create meaningful experiences, support others, and contribute to the greater good, we can discover a deeper, more lasting form of happiness.

    In this light, true happiness may not stem from the mere accumulation of wealth or possessions, but rather from the meaningful ways in which we engage with and direct our financial resources. Whether it involves supporting causes we believe in, fostering connections with others, or pursuing passions that bring fulfillment, the conscious and purposeful use of money has the potential to enrich our lives and those of others. Therefore, the true measure of wealth may not solely reside in what we possess, but in the positive impact we can create through our actions and choices.

    When we have money and we use it to experience pleasure, it does not help us grow. Buying nice things, going on that expensive vacation, or showing off richness through parties, for a moment, we may feel good and nice however, after that, we feel empty. We go back feeling low or feeling sad.

    If we use money to create something for ourselves and for others, it will have a different effect on us. Creating something will require us to deal with complexities, challenges, absurdities, etc. And during those moments we are dealing with it, we sometimes feel defeated and find it hard to go on. But, once we complete the task, we feel a different sensation. Yes. We enjoyed it. We feel happy. We feel successful. We feel fulfilled.

    The process of creation can be both daunting and rewarding. When we invest our time, effort, and resources into creating something, we embark on a journey filled with uncertainties and obstacles. This journey tests our patience, resilience, and problem-solving abilities. There are moments when we may question our decisions and abilities, feeling overwhelmed by the magnitude of the task at hand. However, as we persist and overcome each challenge, we experience a profound sense of accomplishment and satisfaction.

    The value of the outcome extends beyond the tangible result itself. The act of creation shapes our character, enriches our experiences, and nourishes our creativity. It fosters a sense of purpose and cultivates resilience in the face of adversity. Moreover, when our creations benefit others, the intrinsic rewards are magnified. The knowledge that our efforts have positively impacted others fills us with a profound sense of fulfillment and purpose. It reinforces the interconnectedness of our actions and the potential for positive change.

    In essence, the process of creation is a transformative journey that not only yields tangible results but also shapes our mindset and enriches our lives. It teaches us valuable lessons, ignites our passion, and infuses our existence with meaning. Whether we create for ourselves or for the benefit of others, the act of creation has the power to evoke a profound and lasting effect on our personal growth and fulfillment.

    So, yes. Money can buy happiness. That happiness is not about a pleasant life, of leisure and pleasure. That is not it. It is about enjoyment and fulfillment. Enjoyment when we are challenged and grow as a result. Fulfilled when we are able to create something that can help others. Summing all that, we experience happiness. And money is a tool for us to achieve that.

  • When pride and greed comes

    When pride and greed comes

    Pride and greed are two human traits that have the word “excess” tied to its meaning. It all boils down to having more than enough – having more than what is needed.

    When is enough? What makes us push for more? When do we stop?

    You started working to support your family. Spent hours at work. Learned the ropes and all. With each passing day that became months and years, you felt the potential of being the boss. Having your own team. Living a dream. Buying what money can bring. Pushing for more and climbing.

    As time went on, your ambitions grew stronger. The daily grind and hard work became the foundation of your journey towards success. The challenges you faced only fueled your determination to carve out your own path, leading to the realization of your potential as a leader. You envisioned creating a team of your own, where you could cultivate a positive working environment and inspire others to reach their full potential. This dream fueled your relentless pursuit of success, driving you to strive for more and reach new heights in your career. The prospect of achieving financial stability and affording the luxuries that come with it motivated you to keep pushing forward, continuously climbing the ladder of success. Each step you took was infused with the unwavering determination to turn your aspirations into a reality, and you were unwavering in your pursuit of your dreams.

    When do you stop? When do you say you have enough? When do you feel satisfied? When do it end? When do you rest?

    Walter White is the lead character in the series Breaking Bad. He is a chemistry teacher who has cancer and afraid to leave nothing, resorted to cooking meth to save up money that would be enough for their kids college tuition. However, with his greed and ego, he did not stop when he finally earned $700k+. He wanted an empire. By doing so, a lot of people got killed, he lost his family and died in the end.

    The slow-burn crime TV show got me hooked because I was holding into the hope that he’ll change his ways and realize that his pride and greed are eating him alive. I was wrong. Only in the finale episode of the show did he do something not for himself. Well, maybe not.

    When do we stop? When we think we can get more, we always go for more. I think that is the most basic foundation of the seven deadly sins. All of it are definition of any action that is excess of what is needed. More sex, more desires, more food, more about self, more for self, more hate, and more nothingness.

    `When do we stop? When we think we can get more, we always go for more. I think that is the most basic foundation of the seven deadly sins. All of it are definition of any action that is excess of what is needed. More sex, more desires, more food, more about self, more for self, more hate, and more nothingness. In our relentless pursuit of excess, we often lose sight of what is truly important. The insatiable desire for more can lead to a never-ending cycle of dissatisfaction and unhappiness. It’s a reminder to pause and reflect on the choices we make, to find contentment in simplicity and gratitude for what we already have. Our actions can be guided by a sense of sufficiency rather than an endless quest for more. Finding balance and moderation in our pursuits can lead to a more fulfilling and meaningful life. Let’s ponder on the wisdom of knowing when to stop and embracing sufficiency in all aspects of our lives.

    I do not think it is wrong to desire something to make our lives better. To live a comfortable life. To provide better things to our loved ones. However, when we keep aiming for more and more than what we really need, I think that is when greed comes.

    I do not think it is wrong to desire something to make our lives better. To live a comfortable life. To provide better things to our loved ones. However, when we keep aiming for more and more than what we really need, I think that is when greed comes.

    The desire for improvement is a natural and essential part of the human experience. Wanting to enhance our quality of life and provide for our loved ones is motivated by a sense of responsibility and compassion. Striving for comfort and security is a fundamental aspect of seeking happiness and well-being.

    However, as this pursuit intensifies, it can lead to excessive accumulation and consumption. When the quest for more goes beyond fulfilling genuine needs and transitions into a relentless pursuit of excess, it transforms into greed. Greed can cloud our judgment, foster dissatisfaction, and overshadow the value of non-material aspects of life such as relationships, experiences, and personal growth.

    Therefore, while it is reasonable to aspire to improve our lives, it is crucial to maintain a balance and perspective, ensuring that our desires remain in harmony with genuine needs and do not give in to insatiable consumerism. Achieving a sense of contentment with what we have can lead to a more fulfilling and meaningful life, free from the detrimental effects of unchecked greed.

    Instead of being grateful that we have a working phone in our hands, we desire the one others are using. Instead of spending real time with the people we want to spend time with, we desire to go to places that we see on our feeds. Instead of being content with what we have, we look for something else.

    Instead of being grateful that we have a working phone in our hands, we desire the one others are using. Instead of spending real time with the people we want to spend time with, we desire to go to places that we see on our feeds. Instead of being content with what we have, we look for something else.

    In today’s society, it’s common for individuals to overlook the value of what they already possess. Oftentimes, the constant exposure to what others have or experience through social media and other platforms can create a sense of inadequacy or discontentment with our own lives. Instead of appreciating the convenience of having a functional phone, we may find ourselves longing for the latest model or being envious of others’ possessions. Similarly, the time we spend with loved ones should be cherished, yet the influence of social media can lead to a desire for glamorous experiences seen online rather than authentic connections with those around us. This perpetual cycle of comparison and longing can hinder our ability to find contentment and appreciation for the present moment. It’s important to reflect on these tendencies and strive to refocus on gratitude and genuine human connections, valuing what we have rather than constantly seeking for something external to fulfill us.

    Again, having better things to have a comfortable life for ourselves and our loved ones is not wrong. Go for it. But, be conscious and see where your life is now. First, be thankful. And second, know what is enough for you. If these two are not established, prepare for a very miserable life.

    Again, having better things to have a comfortable life for ourselves and our loved ones is not wrong. Go for it. But, be conscious and see where your life is now. First, be thankful. And second, know what is enough for you. If these two are not established, prepare for a very miserable life.

    Understanding the balance between striving for a better life and appreciating what we already have is crucial. It’s natural to want comfort and security for ourselves and our loved ones. However, it’s equally important to remain conscious of our current circumstances and express gratitude for the blessings in our lives. Achieving a sense of contentment and sufficiency is key to avoiding a sense of perpetual dissatisfaction. Without this foundation, the pursuit of material wealth and success can lead to a perpetual sense of longing and discontentment.